Newbie on day 4!

Hello,My name is Sandy. I've been preparing to quit smoking for (believe it or not) about a year. I smoked two packs a day. Four days ago I threw away all the ash trays (full of smokeable butts), bought nicotine patches, and prayed a lot. I haven't smoked since. I read a lot of posts that suggest you have the support of your family and friends when you decide to quit. I haven't told any of my family or friends. I feel that this endeavor is,stop smoking, for me, something private. I've asked myself if it's becasue I'm afraid I'll fail. That may be part of it, but I honestly don't think that's the main reason. I don't want them agonizing over wheher I'll be able to do this or not. And, part of it is just my personality. I have less of a problem sharing with strangers,Herbal cigarettes, or in a situation (like this) where I can remain anonymous. After I've gone through the worst, I'll have no problem sharing with them.Just wondering if anyone else has gone through this.Any HONEST thoughts? Good luck to all!